Many times I have been in high tension situations where people's emotions are running high. I get really uncomfortable, but at the same time I am fascinated. In a detached sort of way.
My method is wait it out. If I was the general, I'd wait for my enemy. But it's also important how you deport yourself in a situation like this. Don't blow up.
Say someone is cursing. A lot. It grates on my mind, I know. I grew up in a swear free household. But I've learned that if you ask others to "tone down their language" or " watch what they say" they get very affronted.
I just calmly ignore and wait. Eventually they'll stop, and if they don't I can just XKCD 1176.
(Look it up, it's good)
So be patient. Stay calm. Nonconfrontational. It'll be okay.
I promise.
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